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Something’s not right

not coping

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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@Snowie and @Former-Member

No issues with here currently, I'm hoping its all sorted behind the scenes. At least I feel comfortable to be here for now.

But off line ... yeah, lots going on ... much of it I am not able to talk about here unfortunately. 🙊 But its very nice to have you all to chat with about other things at least. A distraction if nothing else. And I feel as though I am amongst friends here, best I can hope for.

@Bunniekins @Sans911 @outlander etc.

Sherry 💕

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Evening/Afternoon @Sans911

How has your day been?

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Hey @Snowie and everyone. I've actually had a nice day and feeling good for a change.

I went out on a walk with a group. It was okish, but a little overwhelming to be honest with so many talking at once, and one lady was particularly loud and a little too excited for my comfort levels. But perhaps she was anxious too, and this is her way of coping.

Towards the end of the walk I talked to one guy who I discovered ran his own native plant nursery. Something I'm quite interested in, so I promised to message him later about a visit in the near future.

Then I went to visit my foster sister's son & daughter-in-law, as they were only a few minutes from where I was walking. I've not seentthem in many months.

From there I had a volunteer meeting which I decided to hold outside in a park. Only a couple of people turned up, but we sat in the warm sun & had a nice chat.

Now I'm home & sitting outside with Mr A. It's been lovely weather today, but bad storms predicted tomorrow with high winds and rain. The rain is expected to last until mid week. So I have to go put some things away in the shed before it gets dark.

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Sounds like a lovely day then @Sans911 ... with lots of good things happening. Very happy for you. 👍💕😊🌺

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Just stopping by to say hi and catch up on everyone's news.

👋💕

@Snowie @Sans911 @outlander @Former-Member @Former-Member .... anyone else here.

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🌸 Hoping you are doing ok @Faith-and-Hope 🌸

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@Sans911 I saw the storm predicted in your area. Lots of rain and wind , by the look of it.

Glad today was quite nice, with a hiccup or two, but pleasant enough.

Take care, pat for Mr A. I’ve formed a warm spot for the little chap. 😻😻😻🐾🐾🐾🐾🐾

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@Sans911 @outlander @Faith-and-Hope @Former-Member @Shaz51 @Zoe7 @Snowie @NatureLover

just popping in to say hi.

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@Bunniekins 💚

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Hey @Maggie you can borrow Mr A anytime you like. There are some days and times that all he does is whinge. I put him outside, he wants to come in. I bring him in, he wants out. Like now. So, fostering applications gladly accepted 😊🐾🐾🐱
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