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Something’s not right

not coping

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Thats very true @Faith-and-Hope . I will have been here for 4 years in September. How time flies.

Well @outlander @Sans911 and anyone else if you're around ... its after midnight. I need to try to get some sleep, much as I have been avoiding it up until now. 😔 I bid you all good night. Its been nice to be in your company again after too long away.

Sherry 💕😴💤

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Yes I gathered that @Faith-and-Hope but I did like the expression.

Goodnight @Former-Member hi hope you have some restful sleep. 💜💜

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Goodnight @Former-Member 💖💖

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@Sans911👭😇💜💜💜💜💜

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Goodnight @Former-Member ..... 💖💤

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@Former-Member Hey Sherry you were missed so much by so many formites my dear friend. I am so happy that you are back :). Now things are starting to head back to normal again. Take good care of yourself wont you., Talk soon. Love peaxx

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Thank you beautiful Pea 😀💖🙏

@Bunniekins

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You know, it struck me in reading to catch up this morning that all you long-timers here have had a lot to deal with recently with the huge influx of new members (of which I am one) since isolation this year. It must have resulted in a lot of changes and things to deal with in your forum world.

I take my hat off to you, as massive change is never easy or pleasant I reckon.

@Bunniekins @outlander @Former-Member @Faith-and-Hope @Sans911 @Snowie

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There is always room for more @NatureLover ... and I have to say that you have been a very welcome and caring addition to the forum community.

Its true some of us have been here a while now, for me it will be 4 yrs in September. But there is nothing wrong at all with change, especially when the changes are for the better.

Good to have you around and its great that you have the confidence to 'put yourself out there'. New members may feel a little daunted I expect, when there are very clear and long term friendships on display. But members are on the whole very welcoming and inclusive of all.

You will be a very good CG too. I have to admit that I had you picked for the role about two weeks ago. 😀👍

Sherry 💕

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@Former-Member wrote:

You will be a very good CG too. I have to admit that I had you picked for the role about two weeks ago. 😀👍


Oh gosh - so kind of you @Former-Member ! ❤ I confess I am a bit nervous. I hope I can be useful if possible.

I really appreciate your kind words and encouragement. ❤

You're right about changes sometimes being for the better...it's the process that's hard sometimes I find.

It's true the members on the forums have been very welcoming. In fact I only stepped into this thread to 'fill a gap' temporarily one day, and found myself invited to stay.

I'm sorry to read about your nightmares and flashbacks recently. I really hope for some relief and healing for you. @Former-Member

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