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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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Morning @Bunniekins. There's a few triggering issues for outlander over there ⬅️ so she's staying here for a little while until she works out what to do.

Hope your day is OK for you. 💜 ❤️ 💙

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BunniekinsSenior Contributor

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@Sans911 Hi Sans911 I have been for a big walk at 3.45am with neighbour and it was lovely :). The stars were out and it was perfect. Son2 is going off with carer this morning so am hoping to have many nana naps today.. Wishing my friend @outlander well 🙂 and yourself of course xxx. Have a wonderful day in this glorious weather we are having (hope your autumn weather is just as good as ours has been). Love peaxxx

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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That's a very unusual time to walk in the early hours of the morning @Bunniekins but I know you've been doing it for some time now. And I'm glad you have someone to walk with you because I certainly wouldn't be doing it alone.

It's been very warm here in the West still, so Autumn here isn't really a season.

Enjoy your Nana naps today. 💕💕💕💕💕💕

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BunniekinsSenior Contributor

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@Sans911 where we walk there is traffic and the occasional jogger so it is safe. It is perfect just us to walking and talking with the seagulls and plovers and ducks lol.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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morning sis @Sans911
that's ok, I know you've been struggling with sleep so im glad you managed to get some before Mr A thought it was necessary for you to be up. naughty boy could've at least let you sleep in till a decent hour!

my sleep is shocking or worse then usual anyway. not sure im really sleeping cause of the dreams. if they aren't trauma related then they are bringing to life my SI

I think ill just stick with this thread now, its one of my old ones but still seems to fit in well with things currently and I don't feel comfortable in starting a new thread. id rather those members have that space to call home and then I wont have to visit that thread unless im tagged and can just read that specific post


have you got anything on today?
ive got to see JP, a mechanics taking a look at my car and the kids but not all day cause mums finished at 4 today.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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morning @Bunniekins
im glad your still going for your walks though you wouldn't catch me out walking that early unless it was one of those walking events! im glad you've at least got someone with you though even if its generally a safe place to walk.
hoping you can get some naps in today though while you can

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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morning @Snowie @eth @Appleblossom @Faith-and-Hope @Molliex and all who might pass through

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ethSenior Contributor

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Good to see you here reaching out @outlander Very glad to see you indeed and nice to see you being supported. I'm sitting with you too. Hope today goes according to plan. I know what it's like to have troublesome dreams all night and broken sleep and find it hard to get through the day - only too well - so I really feel for you. Take care lovely one xoxo

(I have been concerned about you and noticed your other thread has been pretty much hijacked. I know they're new members so they might not think to start their own thread to connect on. You're very graceful about letting them have it for now. )

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BunniekinsSenior Contributor

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@outlander thinking of you outlander. Kind and caring thoughts coming your way hunny. You are a lovely person just take good care of yourself. Love peaxx

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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor

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Afternoon @outlander @eth @Bunniekins .....

I have gotten into some food prep this morning ..... I am procrastinating over assignments, but this prep work had to be done anyway, so I lumped it all together and did it all in one morning. Now it's out of the way.

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