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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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hey @Appleblossom
how are you

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Hi dear @outlander

Lots happening, things up and down but still here.

How's things going in your world?

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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I’ve just been away for a few days @outlander but I’ll be home tomorrow. I’m ok, a bit up and down but mostly ok.

I miss our late night chats.

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AppleblossomSenior Contributor

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Hey Bella @outlander

good to see you

I am pretty much the same

a bit up and down but mostly ok

just cleaned the fridge…lol…exciting!

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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hey @Snowie

im sorry things are up and down, sounds very much like my world atm too but so much nicer to be out of the moonboot but it feels so weird! ive been in it so long its strange to feel all the flooring textures properly without bandaging or something on.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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where did you go? @Eve7 was it for a holiday?

ive been back working like crazy to try and catch up on bills again but also trying not to over do it so its mostly night works atm

i hope we can get back to late night chats soon

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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ohh the dreaded fridge clean lol @Appleblossom
the fridge and pantry cleans i feel like are the 2 i neglect the most!
im glad your mostly ok though

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AppleblossomSenior Contributor

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I will be doing pantry cleaning soon…. lol…. But too busy this week, so not too soon..lol

@outlander glad you no longer need the moon boot. Yes it’s funny different sensations that we appreciate. I do believe embodiment is important, just hope it is reasonable being inside one’s skin. Can’t always presume that it is.

🍶🧘🏻‍♀️🏊‍♀️🚴‍♂️

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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I went to Bundaberg @outlander and mainly for a sporting event but stayed an extra few days to get ahead with uni work and be a tourist.

I enjoyed my time there and visited a strawberry farm as well as the rum distillery.

Now I’m home trying to catch up with my washing…so many dirty clothes!!!

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander it would feel funny to be out of the moon boot especially since you were so used to it.

Hopefully things start to turn around soon.

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