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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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hi everyone
is anyone around to talk to?

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Hi @outlander , I am here if you’re still online.

How are you?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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hi @Eve7
my surgery got postponed for a few months. im dealing with some sort of disorder within my bl++d stream. they have to run some more tests to see why i am now experiencing clotting issues. so annoying.
have started some new medications and waiting to see a specialist to see what is happening. have been put on light duties indefinently till the disorder is worked out but at least my leg is healing much better and ill be able to get out of the moonboot in about 3 weeks if my next scan comes back good so im happy about that!

@Appleblossom @Appleblossom @tyme @rav3n @Snowie @Sans911

ive been thinking about you guys too. how are you all?

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tymeModerator

Re: not coping

Hey @outlander , great to hear from you!

Sorry to hear about your current medical challenges! I can see that it can really dampen the spirit. So am I right in saying you are back to work, but on light duties?

We think of you all the time so we are so grateful to have an update.

What have you been doing to keep yourself busy/entertained?

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Sorry you have to wait @outlander but glad things are on the improve ❤️

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rav3nSenior Contributor

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sorry to hear that the surgery's been postponed @outlander i really hope you get some answers around the clotting issue soon. yay for your leg at least, less than a month to go!! 💙

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Seems like a bit of good news with some not so good @outlander

Hopefully your surgery doesn't get delayed too much and they can work out what is hapening.

Glad to hear your foot is improving

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AppleblossomSenior Contributor

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Glad your foot is doing better @outlander

Finding the right level of work and support is crucial. Light duties make sense.

Busy busy here. 2 choirs and committee meeting today. Somehow I have developed a steadily busy creative life, with enough wriggle room for smelling roses sometimes. It’s been tough, but I actually am finding a few friends, learning to set boundaries, and not be a complete marshmallow, be feisty and life is moving on. Seeing the problems everywhere that people have. Rowing my boat. Felt grateful for my life as I was driving home. It happened step by step. I hope your health and your life improve.

No internet for a couple days, but back on.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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yes back at work but on light duties @tyme

just watching tv, went for a little walk today while the weather is nice. i dont go far though, cant wait for the moonboot to be off.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thank you @Eve7 @rav3n
i hope your both going ok!
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