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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

No not buying @tyme

Selling a house

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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hi everyone @Snowie @tyme @Eve7 @Shaz51 @Appleblossom @Sans911 and everyone

had first house inspection this morning and thankfully theyre happy so theyre going to extend my lease for another 6 months so i dont have to worry where ill be living for a while.
trying to start again with ndis paperwork with an advocate. it is slow but have another meeting today to go over few things before i start creating a new application again

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Hi dear @outlander

Glad the inspection went well hon. One less thing to worry about.

I hope with an advocate that things go better this time with the NDIS. I know there is a lot involved with it all.

Hoping your day is going well

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AppleblossomSenior Contributor

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I am really glad they are extending the lease. One worry sorted. @outlander keep looking after you.

@Snowie

good luck with the selling… it all can be stressful.

@Eve7 @tyme @Shaz51

take care all

i am cosy under the doona but best get up soon.

I had a big morning, visited my father and sister at the grave. It means I go through old stamping grounds. My support worker drove. I pointed out places in my life… she made the connection that I had been selling cigarettes while I was underage. I certainly had never smoked them, but had to learn all cartons…. I was 14. Naughty naughty me. My folks were into rollies…. Not tailor mades…. So many memories… many good. Good to visit. All the feelings flow, through me. Some times we need to pay our respects. Other times, we need to be future focused… and yes, sometimes… be in the NOW.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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ndis is a hassle but can be worth it. it would be worth it for me meaning i would be able to access supports so im hoping within the next few months ill have a new answer @Snowie

had my psych appointment today

@Appleblossom im glad they extended too. its hard finding housing these days even emergency accomodation is often full.
your morning sounds pretty busy though but im glad your support worker was there with you.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@Appleblossom 💕💕

I really do hope that you get approved @outlander Just being able to access those supports would be a weight lifted of your shoulders.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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it would mean the world to me to be able to access support workers @Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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I know it would @outlander

D works with ndis clients. Some can access so much.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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that is true @Snowie
i work ndis and aged care so i see both worlds

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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You would see it a lot @outlander

How long does the whole process take?

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