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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Sans911Senior Contributor20 May 2020, 2:57 pm AEST

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There's probably not much you can do at this point @outlander. It seems you may have to wait on the referral time for the gastroenterologist. It's totally sucky I know. We'll just have to cross fingers it comes sooner rather than later.

I'm just wondering in the meantime if your largest and closest hospital has a pain management team that you could be referred to. They might be able to help you manage until that time. And I know today is a shite day, but emergency presentation is still an option for you if and when you can.

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outlanderSenior Contributor20 May 2020, 3:16 pm AEST

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Yeah i think yoir right @Sans911
I cant make an appt till i get the refferral. I was suppose to pick it up but the gp didn't give anything to reception so have to go back later hopefully today. I cant go while im waiting on the bank though, they were suppose to ring an hour ago

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outlanderSenior Contributor20 May 2020, 3:29 pm AEST

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@Sans911 @NatureLover can u please help on the other thread, i just cant do the leaving threads and no support again.

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Sans911Senior Contributor20 May 2020, 3:32 pm AEST

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Can you tag me @outlander. Not sure where you mean exactly

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outlanderSenior Contributor20 May 2020, 3:33 pm AEST

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You just responded on the thread @Sans911

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Sans911Senior Contributor20 May 2020, 3:37 pm AEST

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Uh ok

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Sans911Senior Contributor20 May 2020, 3:38 pm AEST

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I'm really sorry @outlander I'm a bit lost. Sorry

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outlanderSenior Contributor20 May 2020, 3:38 pm AEST

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The tough times thread @Sans911 the notifications are very slow my end again. Your post was good, and posted before i said anything here, sorry

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Sans911Senior Contributor20 May 2020, 3:40 pm AEST

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Sorry lil Sis @outlander

Yes, taking care of it in amongst running back and forth to the car and cleaning up

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outlanderSenior Contributor20 May 2020, 3:42 pm AEST

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No stress sis, @Sans911 im jusy struggling with trying to help with that same exact posting theme every single day several times day.
Im still chatting there but i dont know what else to say that would help anymore

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