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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor02 Mar 2025, 1:06 pm AEDT

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Hi @outlander

Hope today is going ok for you hon 💗💗

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SnowieSenior Contributor03 Mar 2025, 10:37 am AEDT

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Wishing you a good day today @outlander 💌💌

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rav3nSenior Contributor03 Mar 2025, 3:49 pm AEDT

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hey there @outlander @Snowie how was both your weekend?

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SnowieSenior Contributor03 Mar 2025, 4:02 pm AEDT

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Wasn't a great weekend @rav3n

Some things happening that are out of my control.

Hopefully over the next few days things will improve.

How are you going?

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rav3nSenior Contributor03 Mar 2025, 5:49 pm AEDT

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sorry to hear that your weekend didn't go well, fingers crossed things get better this week @Snowie is H back from his boys trip? hope D's holding up okay too.

wasn't the best weekend for me either, but was able to get good sleep which helped process some of my overwhelm. my best friend's birthday is coming up, so having that to look forward to helps.

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SnowieSenior Contributor03 Mar 2025, 5:58 pm AEDT

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H is home @rav3n Back to work today.

D seems ok. Have spoken to her and she seems to be coping better than I.

Been able to get out of bed and tick a few things of my list today so taking that as a win.

I'm sorry your weekend wasn't great either.

If you need to talk about it, it goes both ways, we are here for you to.

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rav3nSenior Contributor03 Mar 2025, 9:28 pm AEDT

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i don't know how i missed this post, sorry!! @Snowie

getting those tasks ticked off is definitely a win! everyone copes/processes/deals with traumatic situations in different ways, so its totally okay to follow your own pace.

appreciate you being here.

Content/trigger warning

my cousin passed away last week. we weren't close so when i heard the news i was quite detached at first. but over the weekend i started processing it and heard my family friends talk about him in a way that didn't sit right with me.

but i talked it out with my friend, and felt much better after venting.

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SnowieSenior Contributor04 Mar 2025, 1:07 pm AEDT