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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor23 Feb 2025, 5:25 pm AEDT

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i start work late tomorrw night and work the night shift @tyme

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outlanderSenior Contributor23 Feb 2025, 5:25 pm AEDT

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sounds like you have got some things done too @Shaz51

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tymeModerator23 Feb 2025, 5:29 pm AEDT

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Hey @Shaz51 , weird question.. but do you have one of those underground basement thingys that American moveis have? The ones that families hide in when there's a tornado or something??

I can see your eyes rolling at me lol.

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Shaz51Senior Contributor23 Feb 2025, 5:38 pm AEDT

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@tyme

No but the community can go and stay at the RSL town building if they feel their homes would be unsafe to stay in

apart from that you pick the strongest part of the house to stay in and it depends on how bad the cyclone is

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outlanderSenior Contributor23 Feb 2025, 5:41 pm AEDT

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i hope the cyclone doesnt go into your area @Shaz1 hopefully it doesnt get to bad

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outlanderSenior Contributor23 Feb 2025, 5:42 pm AEDT

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do you have any plans for tomorrow @tyme

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Shaz51Senior Contributor23 Feb 2025, 5:43 pm AEDT

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hope so too @outlander , turns into rain will be good 👍

@tyme

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Shaz51Senior Contributor23 Feb 2025, 5:44 pm AEDT

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yes any plans @tyme 😁

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outlanderSenior Contributor23 Feb 2025, 5:44 pm AEDT

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you can send some rain here! we do need abit to keep the grass growing @Shaz51

do you have any plans for tomorrow

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tymeModerator23 Feb 2025, 5:49 pm AEDT

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It's been really hot here so I'd love to just sleep tomorrow. But I have one training session on tomorrow that goes for about 2 hours. @outlander @Shaz51 . Um... I'm also going to visit someone whose mum just passed away from cancer 2 weeks ago.

The kids have swimming lessons so in the evening, I might help shower them at the pool.

That's about it.

You @outlander @Shaz51 ?

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