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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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creative_writerSenior Contributor

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@outlander happy to hear about the progress. Wishing you all the best for your health 💖🫂

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tymeModerator

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Awww @outlander ! It must be such a relief for you! I hope it goes well.

Is this the one you need to travel interstate for and then have extensive time to recover?

Hope you have the supports you need in place.

I'm missing you on the forums. At the same time, good on you for looking after yourself.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@tyme
Yeah this is the interstate treatment, stay for about a week then more recovery time.
I don’t have many supports in place but I have a lift there and back. I can’t afford any more then that so not other choice really then to ride it out myself

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Is anyone around to talk to?

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Sorry I missed this last night @outlander as I was still awake.

I hope you’re ok my friend 💙

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Sorry I missed you last night @outlander

I know it's not much, but am around now if you need anything.

Love you hon 💗💗

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thank you @Snowie @Eve7

im just stressed and anxious over the procedure i have coming up in a few days. its quite invasive in the location they are going so its quite awkward. at least ill be asleep for it as a bonus.

there just seems to be alot going on atm. have to try and sort out some stuff for housing so i can try and avoid homelessness across the next few months.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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So good to hear from you @outlander

No doubt you are stressed and anxious. Any procedure is big, especially if they have to put you to sleep. I really hope that it does help you.

Is this the procedure where you have got someone driving to and from for you?

If you need to unload on everything that is happening, we are here for you hon.

I really hope that you get the housing situation worked out as quickly as possible. One less stress to deal with.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i have 3 different ones coming up @Snowie

i have a minor but invasive one in a few days that require driving to and from cause of the anaesthetic, then my big treatment week where its interstate and then longer recover then a major surgery a few weeks before christmas which then requires 2-4 weeks off work and minimal ability to do to much

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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I hope you are having people looking after you, especially after your big procedure @outlander

Even though no one would want to go through what you are, hopefully these procedures help you in the long run.

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