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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

the key workers here are all definently exhausted and glad the audit is over @Snowie we're all looking forward to some sleep since mostly myself the TL and boss have been doing all the stuff.
working an extending night shift now so by tomorrow morning itll be around 16 hours work but i have tomorrow off thankfully. have house inspections for the group homes tomorrow so may get called in to assist with those but they dont take to long. iv already done most of the cleaning tonight. i think morning staff can pick up some of the slack tomorrow morning and get some of the other cleaning duties done.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

is anyone still around to talk to?

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SnowieSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

@outlander I'm sorry I wasn't around when you needed someone to talk too.

I hope your days go ok hon.

Please look after yourself 💗💗You are worth it.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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It’s ok @Snowie

Done my 2 appointments and will probably head to bed early for work tomorrow morning plus I have volunteering too in the evening

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Glad you got your appointments done @outlander I hope they both went ok for you.

An early night sounds good especially if you have to work in the morning.

I hope the volunteering goes well.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

Thank you @Snowie
I hope your going ok

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SnowieSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

Hey my @outlander

I'm going ok thanks.

Hoping things are starting to calm down for you.

Sending lots of 💌💌

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outlanderSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

It’s so lonely now.
It really is true that people only are around me when they’re paid or if I can be of some sort of use to them.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

@outlander sorry you are feeling that way hon.

It's hard when people only want us when we can be useful to them.

Have you got any family/friends that you can catch up with? Maybe for a cuppa

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i dont have anyone @Snowie no one. the only people im around are those i work with and thats briefly. or those who are paid to be around me
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