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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @Snowie @Jynx @Eve7 and everyone

sorry not in a good space so not here to much at the moment.

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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Hugs my @outlander ❤️❤️ sitting with you xx

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JynxModerator

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@outlander no stress hun, do what you need to do to look after yourself. We'll be here for you when you need us 💜

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Sending lots of love @outlander

💜💙💜

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander be here as much or as little as you need hon.

Just know that we are here for you.

Sending so much love your way 💕💕

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PeppyPattiSenior Contributor

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Typically I cannot remember the name but someone wrote you may be getting sledgehammers thrown at you atm….. to me that sounds like a perfect metaphor……

Is this the right word @outlander ?

How are you today @outlander ?

@Lila3 @Former-Member

@Snowie @Shaz51 @Jynx @creative_writer @Eve7 @Appleblossom

@Emelia8 @Sans911 @Captain24

@TAB @Bill16

Its awesome to re find your name @Lila3 I apologise I haven’t tagged you but my memory is shocking.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thank you @Jynx @Shaz51 @Eve7 @PeppyPatti @Appleblossom @Emelia8

still investigating my arm but looks like i have neuropathic issues as well so its meaning more time off work and even less $ so its becoming very stressful at the moment

the neurologist has ordered alot of tests so have to book those next week.
also have a meeting for a possible care home for pop as well.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Former-Member @tyme @creative_writer @Captain24 @Sans911 above msg

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Unknown userMember

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Im so sorry to hear that @outlander 💜

I hope booking the appointments can happen quickly and you can get tests and results, hopefully with a treatment plan from the neurologist asap.

Im sorry to hear its impacting on your work, and youre also caring for your pop, looking for a place xx

Things sound very busy and stressful. Holding space for you, and lots of hope for things to get better.

Also, if it might be helpful, I live with neuropathy and have had nerve injuries in the past, so if I can do anything to help, please do let me know xx 🙂

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tymeModerator

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Hey @outlander ,

I'm so sorry to hear about your health condition. I read that it is very stressful at the moment for you.

I hope you get pop the support he needs at the moment so that you can focus on your own health.

We are here if you need anything.

Hugs

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