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Something’s not right

not coping

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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@outlander, it sounds like there is a lot of pressure from your family. That would be hard considering everything you are juggling with 💖🫂

Meds do help migraines but don’t eliminate them, sadly 😞

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Where I worked you could return after 5 days if you were well @outlander and that was in disability. They don’t expect a positive result as that sometimes doesn’t happen for weeks. You’re only infectious the first few days.

I guess every state sees it differently. Sending hugs 🤗

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yeah its a bugger it would be nice to have a cure for them but at least they help abit @creative_writer


i think it depends on the company @Eve7
the 2 i work for i have to be symptom free , at least 10 days. i can return back if symptoms are mild but th test has to be negative and i have to wear ppe till im negative. i work with mostly immunocompromised people- like cancer patients or past or others that have an immune disorder besides the dementia clients so i have to be really careful with any cold or flu. one wont even let me in the house if i have allergies playing up

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That makes sense @outlander 🙂

That's really thoughtful of you regarding taking a mask out with you, too 💜

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@outlander, I wish there was a cure. You can try to minimise triggers but it’s hard to do it all the time. I have sensory related triggers too, which creates a lot of frustration

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♥️to you @outlander

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its an awful condition esp for those that are affected more then a cold like some seem to get. @Former-Member so i would hate to be the one that passes it to someone who is more at risk



@creative_writer i definently understand. with the triggers. you never really know
would it be ok if i ask you about your sensory issues? i dont have autism or not thats been diagnosed but i feel i have sensory issues but maybe its not the right term for what i experience

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@Snowie

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@outlander, I was only diagnosed with ASD when I turned 18. It can often go underdiagnosed. Sensory issues can be a part of ASD. I’ve also heard migraine sufferers have sensory sensitivities. I guess it comes down to whether you think you have any other ASD symptoms

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@creative_writer

i dont really think i have autism but im more curious about the sensory issues.
for example i struggle with loud and overcrowded places and also loud sudden noises or anything high pitched. sometimes i even get overwhelmed watching a movie on the big screen at cinemas.

i also get overwhelmed by certain foods as well especially when theres various textures, smell/scents

i also get overwhelmed by to many various noises and colours. watching a movie like trolls (the kids musical movie) is abit of a struggle when theres alot of colour everywhere and flashing lights and that sort thing.

is this something you experience as well?
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