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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor25 Oct 2023, 4:41 pm AEDT

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Least you'll be able to sleep in between those shifts @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor25 Oct 2023, 5:09 pm AEDT

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yes thankfully and then i can do some work from home cause i wont be able to do much while im having to babysit for aweek @Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor25 Oct 2023, 5:11 pm AEDT

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I thought the kids would be at school @outlander?

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outlanderSenior Contributor25 Oct 2023, 5:46 pm AEDT

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friday monday and tuesday yeah @Snowie but i also am there for the weekend and have to take to sports and sports training and school and school pickup as well as take pop and pick up from day programs so im really restricted in my timing

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SnowieSenior Contributor26 Oct 2023, 9:56 am AEDT

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Thats a lot of running around and babysitting @outlander

I hope your mum appreciates just how much you do for her.

Hoping work goes well for you today 💌💌

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SnowieSenior Contributor28 Oct 2023, 9:35 am AEDT

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Hi hon @outlander

Hoping your weekend is going ok for you sweetie.

Sending lots of 💜💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor28 Oct 2023, 10:13 am AEDT

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thanks @Snowie the weekend is going pretty slowly at the moment. just at mums today and horses later. its been raining so not to much to be doing.

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SnowieSenior Contributor28 Oct 2023, 10:16 am AEDT

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We've had a fair bit of rain here too so been inside days @outlander

Do you have to occupy the kids or can they do that themselves?

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outlanderSenior Contributor28 Oct 2023, 10:20 am AEDT

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she will do that herself @Snowie its pop who needs constant supervision. but not much to do here anyway really so just doing some house work and watching tv till later i guess. pretty boring. not use to sitting around doing nothing

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SnowieSenior Contributor28 Oct 2023, 10:28 am AEDT

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Least you don't have to entertain her @outlander

Will your Pop just watch tv?

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