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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @Snowie i plan on chilling and watching netflix or something. usually around 2-3am it gets abit harder but then i get a second wind around 5. i find if i go straight to bed while its still relatively dark i can sleep but im not sure how much ill be sleeping whe i know ive really only got 4 hours to sleep between when i get home and have to go pick up pop again

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Chilling sounds good to me @outlander

Hopefully you can put those 4 hours to go use!

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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yes sleeping would be great lol @Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Going to join peer group chat @outlander

I hope work goes well for you tonight.

Take care hon

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creative_writerSenior Contributor

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@outlander, I hope you get a restful four hours 💖.

@Snowie, peer group chats like a lovely idea. I would come, but just so drained after uni and my appointment

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tymeModerator

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Hey @creative_writer @outlander @Eve7 🙂

Yeah, I hear you @creative_writer - the PGC can be a bit fast paced sometimes, esp after a long day out.

@outlander - I've been looking for you 🙂 I had to go check where you posted last in order to find you. I was concerned because I felt I hadn't seen you around lately 🙂

@Eve7 Thinking of you. Hope you are okay.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks for looking out for me @tyme
sort of am laying low at the moment

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander hoping you are asleep now and night shift went ok

Hope today goes well for you hon 💗💗

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i slept for 2 hours earlier @Snowie now just doing some washing and need to clean my car for the weekend. i start at 7 tomorrow so trying not to sleep to much today otherwise i wont sleep tonight

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Was good you got some sleep at least @outlander

Washing never seems to end!

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