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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor25 Sept 2023, 8:09 pm AEST

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By warm I mean 22 @outlander!!!

No doubt it will get a lot hotter where you are.

Sounds good to take the 2 weeks off hon, if you can have some time to yourself that sounds even better.

You deserve some time 'of'

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outlanderSenior Contributor25 Sept 2023, 8:16 pm AEST

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i hope so too @Snowie

i cant stop yawning. the fatigue is getting to me again. im going to ask night shift to start at 830 tomorrow instead of 10.

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SnowieSenior Contributor25 Sept 2023, 8:20 pm AEST

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Hopefully the rest of tonight goes fast and you can get some sleep @outlander

Also hoping you get some answers to your fatigue soon hon.

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outlanderSenior Contributor25 Sept 2023, 8:21 pm AEST

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i see the specialist on wednesday @Snowie hopefully they have some answers to what might be happening.

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outlanderSenior Contributor25 Sept 2023, 8:23 pm AEST

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do you have anything on tomorrow @Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor25 Sept 2023, 8:31 pm AEST

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I hope you get some answers @outlander on Wednesday.

Tomorrow I have to ring around to kennels to get Izzy into a kennel for the xmas/new year period for when we go away. Hopefully they are not booked out.

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outlanderSenior Contributor25 Sept 2023, 8:33 pm AEST

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oh good luck @Snowie everything always books out so fast. hopefully there is something around though unless she can come with you and stay in a kennel close to where you are if theres none in your area

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SnowieSenior Contributor25 Sept 2023, 8:38 pm AEST

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I have a,few,options near home @outlander so hoping so. There are places on the way too.

Will say goodnight hon. Struggling to stay awake.

I hope the rest of your,shift goes well and quickly.

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outlanderSenior Contributor25 Sept 2023, 8:46 pm AEST

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goodnight @Snowie i hope you sleep well

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SnowieSenior Contributor26 Sept 2023, 12:57 pm AEST

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Good afternoon @outlander

Hoping you were able to sleep in and work is going ok hon.

💕💕

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