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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor19 Sept 2023, 5:58 pm AEST

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Sorry about the fatigue @outlander Really hoping you get some answers soon.

It must be hard to have that pain all the time, even if it as base level.

I know I'm not dealing with things by using prn, but I don't know what else to do.

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outlanderSenior Contributor19 Sept 2023, 6:11 pm AEST

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sometimes we do what we can to get by at the time @Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor19 Sept 2023, 6:15 pm AEST

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That is true @outlander

What is for dinner there?

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outlanderSenior Contributor19 Sept 2023, 6:16 pm AEST

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chicken vegies and fried rice for the clients @Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor19 Sept 2023, 6:18 pm AEST

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Do you eat there @outlander or do you have to wait until you are home?

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outlanderSenior Contributor19 Sept 2023, 6:19 pm AEST

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normally i wait till im home @Snowie but pop eats here. normally im to tired by the time i get home or i just have a snack and go for a shower and bed. thats prob what will happen again tonight.

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SnowieSenior Contributor19 Sept 2023, 6:28 pm AEST

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Least you don't have to cook tea for your pop @outlander

Just had spaghetti for tea here. Quick and simple. Even better, D cooked.

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outlanderSenior Contributor19 Sept 2023, 6:33 pm AEST

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That’s good at least @Snowie

Quick and easy and no cooking is a bonus

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SnowieSenior Contributor19 Sept 2023, 6:41 pm AEST

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If they left it up to me tonight it would have been left overs @outlander

It seems like your pop goes everywhere with you, even when you go to work

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outlanderSenior Contributor19 Sept 2023, 6:51 pm AEST

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He comes everywhere @Snowie everything revolves around him

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