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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor11 Sept 2023, 8:47 am AEST

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Wishing you a great day @outlander

Sending lots of love 💗💗

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outlanderSenior Contributor11 Sept 2023, 9:06 am AEST

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its my day off today @Snowie but pops home all day. i need to catch up on some washing and change my bedding so thatll be today i guess

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SnowieSenior Contributor11 Sept 2023, 9:14 am AEST

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Urgh that washing again @outlander Never seems to end.

Can you get a walk in at all for yourself hon? or at least something for you.

Fresh sheets feel so nice, enjoy!

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outlanderSenior Contributor11 Sept 2023, 9:30 am AEST

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i dont think ill be walking today @Snowie pops home all day and my gap to go would have been before school drop off. i think the washing and drying and attempting to actually fold and put it away this time will keep me occupied enough for now.

any plans for you today

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outlanderSenior Contributor11 Sept 2023, 9:35 am AEST

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my skills course on MS has opened up today too so i can start completing another skills course. im hoping to hear back from tafe about the assignments ive been submitting as well.

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SnowieSenior Contributor11 Sept 2023, 9:37 am AEST

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I'm sure you will get it all done today @outlander

Sunny here for a change so doing some washing too. Should dry outside today.

Not much else on. Probably watch something on netflix again.

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SnowieSenior Contributor11 Sept 2023, 9:38 am AEST

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I hope you are able to get some done @outlander and your tafe gets back to you. One step closer to finishing this course.

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outlanderSenior Contributor11 Sept 2023, 9:53 am AEST

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its sunny here too and warmer. we dont get much sun in the backyard though till at least midday so its hard to put stuff on the line unless theres a breeze otherwise it hardly dries.

my MS course is a skills course so its not through TAFE its just an added one. ive finished the brain injury one, just need the MS one and later in october the dementia one.

i only have 3 assessments left for TAFE but i need them marked so it keeps the course progressing along.
2 role plays left to do which i really hate. i would rather do work experience instead compared or just write essays.
i have one 1000 word report to write up for the third assignment but im procrastinating.

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outlanderSenior Contributor11 Sept 2023, 9:53 am AEST

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@Snowie above post

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SnowieSenior Contributor11 Sept 2023, 10:00 am AEST

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I hope you get them all done @outlander I'm sure you will.

Role plays are annoying to do. I remember I had to do them at uni for my course.

You don't learn anything from them. Working in the field is when you get the most experience.

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