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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor08 Sept 2023, 9:45 pm AEST

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Are you watching anything on tv tonight @outlander or doing anything?

Just watching the footy here

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tymeModerator08 Sept 2023, 9:46 pm AEST

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I know 'home' is not really home for you right now @outlander . Can you think of something to busy yourself with?

Hugs to you.

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outlanderSenior Contributor08 Sept 2023, 9:52 pm AEST

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im watching a documentary series on netflix called dear child @tyme @Snowie
ive just made a cup of tea and have netflix on.

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SnowieSenior Contributor08 Sept 2023, 10:10 pm AEST

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Never heard of that series @outlander will have to check it out.

Been watching The Hunger Games movies again.

Recently watched on Netflix The Queens Gambit. Was really good.

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outlanderSenior Contributor08 Sept 2023, 10:16 pm AEST

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its interesting. @Snowie its about abductions though. keeps you wanting to find out what happens. its a little intense in some parts though.

ive seen those movies, they are pretty good.

ive havent watched that one yet, ill have to check it out. im always looking for some tv shows to watch esp when i can just put them on and coloring or crochet or something while watching the tv.

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SnowieSenior Contributor08 Sept 2023, 10:23 pm AEST

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I didn't think I would like it @outlander but ended up really liking it. Also, The Designated Survivor is a good tv series too that is on Netflix.

Thats good that you can keep your hands busy whilst watching tv too.

I will check that one out hon. Always looking for things to watch on Netflix too.

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outlanderSenior Contributor08 Sept 2023, 10:40 pm AEST

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It’s one of the ways I cope @Snowie

I’m at work tomorrow morning but I’m hoping it goes quick. Same for Sunday too but at least it’s better pay rate for those days

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SnowieSenior Contributor08 Sept 2023, 10:43 pm AEST

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Thats good that it is better pay rate for you on the weekend @outlander

Hope for your sake work goes quickly or you. A fast shift is a good shift.

Will say goodnight hon. Hoping your urges stay just that. Take care of yourself. Will check in on you tomorrow 💗💗

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outlanderSenior Contributor08 Sept 2023, 10:50 pm AEST

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Thanks @Snowie it’s been nice chatting
Think I’ll head to bed too

Goodnight @tyme

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Captain24Senior Contributor09 Sept 2023, 8:14 am AEST

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Sorry @outlander I was at work last night.

Im hoping that you are ok and that today is a better day for you.

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