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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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We won @tyme so that was good 😁

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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urgh im home again in the same situation as i was before

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander wishing you a good day today hon. Hoping you can find some peace in your day.

Sending lots of love sis 💗💗

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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im at work again @Snowie another 11 hour shift here. at least another quiet day but sometimes it just drags on when i have things i need to be doing today. at least its double time today so a longer shift works in my favour

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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I hope it doesn't drag on for a long time @outlander but as you said, at least it is double time.

Have you got anything to do to occupy yourself?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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just filling in hospital forms for now and then apart from that nothing. client going out the other is just watching sports as usual. housework already done except the dishes for lunch. apart from that stuck here till 4 now

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Good morning my sis @outlander

Hoping today goes well for you and that if you are working it goes fast.

Sending lots of love your way 💗💗

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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hi @Snowie
no shift today thankfully. plumber has been and going to finally get a new tank meaning can have slightly longer showers and both of us can have a shower at night and not just one of us.

think ill go for a walk while pop is out. its a nice day here. im pretty tired but im trying to be healthier and ill probably regret not going for a walk while i have the time to go.

what are your plans for today

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Thats good about the tank @outlander

Longer showers are really nice and relaxing.

I hope you manage to go for a walk. Probably should try and get out of the house myself.

I haven't got many plans for today. Some washing and have to do a few things around the house.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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at the moment because the system is faulty we are only getting about 2 minutes each to have a shower @Snowie so its a struggle to get time to wash my hair on the nights pop has a shower too

i did manage a walk. i went for nearly 2 hours. the weather is so nice. i need to do some washing too but i also cant really be bothered to do it either. i keep putting the simple tasks on the backburner
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