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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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hey @tyme how are you?

@hanamihow did you enjoy the barbie movie? it sounds like your daughters hip is progressing well. can i ask what she did ie fracture..

i still dont know whats happening with this job. its been on and off discussion for over the last week but finally had the interview yesterday. if im not contacted by the weekend though ill be making some enquires to some other places.


Hey @Shaz51 @Eve7 @Appleblossom @Emelia8 and all who may be following along too

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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im starting to get abit annoyed with one of the job opportunities though. they keep hinting at me that they want me to work casual which is all i can offer anyway but then wont make contact back and text msgs for anything is delayed.

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hanamiSenior Contributor

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Hi @outlander

We loved the movie! We got recliner seats, popcorn, slushies and had a relaxing afternoon. It was so nice.

My daughter was born with hip dysplasia and it wasn't picked up until she was almost 2. If it's picked up early it's easy to treat but 2 is quite late. Anyway she had some treatment at the time but we always knew she could need more surgery. Turns out she needed a full hip replacement! We were so shocked when we found out but it kind of validated her pain she'd been in so she was glad about it. She had it done about 2 months ago now. Been a bit of a rocky recovery but she is finally doing well. Thankyou for asking, people are so kind and caring.

I really hope something is sorted with the job soon. It's awful waiting.

Well I'm just about done for today. I will talk to you next week!

Been so nice chatting. I often don't have time but this week has been nice as I've had a bit more space to chat with everyone.

Take care

x

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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that sounds so nice @hanami

im also glad your daughters recovering well too. hip replacements are a hard recovery. sounds like she is on the right track though!

nice chatting to you too. i dont get to 'see' you that much so thats been nice too

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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im really starting to doubt myself. im trying to keep myself level headed and know the path im trying to stick with but its getting harder and harder to be strong i guess. im doubting my ability to do this

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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I don’t doubt your ability to achieve your goals @outlander

💜💙💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I am really trying 😞 @Eve7

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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hey @tyme its been a tiring day but i got a couple of things done that ive been meaning to do but havent been able to. been at work since 12 though. only an hour to go now then i cna go home shower and sleep ready to get bakc up for a 5am start at work

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tymeModerator

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Yikes! That's hectic @outlander ! it's really a back to back shift. Late night and early morning. Are you okay with that?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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its ok @tyme its a struggle but i have to take whatever shifts i can since i can only work specific shifts now and only limited to like 3 shifts out of my normal 5-6 so its a big drop even if it means a couple of the harder shifts.

life is so complicated sometimes. i just do a alot of sighing these days.
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