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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor25 July 2023, 3:51 pm AEST

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are your kids home from school? @Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor25 July 2023, 3:57 pm AEST

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@outlander yes.

Just waiting for a package to be delivered today.

Hopefully H will cook tea. It's all there he just really needs to heat it up.

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outlanderSenior Contributor25 July 2023, 4:09 pm AEST

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its good when we get our deliveries @Snowie

what are you having for tea?

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SnowieSenior Contributor25 July 2023, 4:13 pm AEST

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I really don't want to be around people @outlander

So glad that they deliver.

Just having pasta and meat sauce for tea. What are you having?

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outlanderSenior Contributor25 July 2023, 4:29 pm AEST

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mm im hearing you @Snowie

i dont what were having yet. gets hard when pop is so fussy and half the time doesnt eat what i cook anyway

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SnowieSenior Contributor25 July 2023, 4:37 pm AEST

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People just intimidate me @outlander and I just feel more isolated then normal. I know they are not judging me, but it feels that way.

It's hard when you have a fussy eater. Thinking about what to cook for tea can be hard. I'm lucky that both of my kids aren't fussy.

Do you have to work tomorrow?

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outlanderSenior Contributor25 July 2023, 4:41 pm AEST

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no ive taken the day off @Snowie i think that invasive appointment is more then enough for one day plus a job interview in the arvo before i pick up pop form day programs

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SnowieSenior Contributor25 July 2023, 4:51 pm AEST

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It is more then enough @outlander glad you took the day off

I hope the job interview goes well for you hon.

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outlanderSenior Contributor25 July 2023, 4:58 pm AEST

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lets hope @Snowie itll only be twice a week but thats all im looking for. just hope its something theyre willing to work with as i can only offer certain hours.

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SnowieSenior Contributor25 July 2023, 5:05 pm AEST

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I hope you get it for your sake @outlander It must be hard trying to work around your pop and 2 days a week sounds like you can some 'me' time in there too.

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