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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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tymeModerator19 July 2023, 9:40 pm AEST

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Of course I can @outlander . What's going through your mind at the moment (if you feel comfortable to share)?

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outlanderSenior Contributor19 July 2023, 9:50 pm AEST

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Thank you @tyme
I’m mostly just tired and in a fair bit of pain. It’s just nice to have company while I ride it out and the emotions that come with it I guess

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tymeModerator19 July 2023, 10:11 pm AEST

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Hugs @outlander . I hear you. I sorry I can't stay longer. I'm off now, but will check-in tomorrow. I'll be on the Peer Group Chat tomorrow evening too.

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outlanderSenior Contributor19 July 2023, 10:16 pm AEST

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Thank you @tyme

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Eve7Senior Contributor19 July 2023, 10:52 pm AEST

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@outlander

💙💜💙

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SnowieSenior Contributor20 July 2023, 8:29 am AEST

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Good morning my @outlander

Wishing you a good day today hon. Hoping it is at least a little better.

Sending lots of love 💌💌

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outlanderSenior Contributor20 July 2023, 2:42 pm AEST

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It’s going to be a long shift. I’m still not 100%, still in a pain flare and I’m so tired I’m falling asleep at work again. I have another 8 hours to go 😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨

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SnowieSenior Contributor20 July 2023, 2:57 pm AEST

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Sorry you are still in so much pain @outlander Am here with you ❤️

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outlanderSenior Contributor20 July 2023, 3:48 pm AEST

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Thanks @Snowie I’m counting down the hours. Have another busy day again tomorrow but I get a sleep in. 7 hours to go at this moment

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SnowieSenior Contributor20 July 2023, 4:35 pm AEST

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A sleep in sounds good to me @outlander

Is there anything you can do to make the time go faster?

Happy to sit with you

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