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Something’s not right

not coping

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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thats good you got a day off @Shaz51

technology can be such a pain sometimes! ive had many arugments with my printer and laptop and phone and everything tech lol

im ok just keeping busy. have surgery tomorrow so keeping my nerves at bay as much as i can so i sleep tonight

what are you doing tomorrow?

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ohh what surgery are you having @outlander , will be thinking of you lots and sending my love

have one cleaning job tomorrow morning

then mr shaz wants to do some tree trimming in the yard xx

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thanks @Shaz51

your always doing cleaning and yard work. mr shaz seems fairly committed to keeping a nice yard hey

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ha ha sometimes too much @outlander , @Snowie , but I let him 😁

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I’ll be thinking of you tomorrow @outlander and I hope you sleep well tonight.

💜💜💜💜

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i guess as long as your happy @Shaz51 then why not

thank you @Eve7 just finishing dinner here now and the movie. ill go lay down shortly once my clothes in the dryer are sorted

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@outlander I know you won't see this post until you have already had your op., but just coming by to wish you luck hon and let you know that you are not alone. Am here with you through all of this.

You are in my thoughts today sis 💕💕

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thank you @Snowie im back home now. still in a fair bit of pain and the wound sites are quite in uncomfortable locations. im glad i took the week off work now.
i went out for lunch with a friend earlier as well which was nice

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Hey @outlander ,

I've been thinking about you. Thanks for the update. I wish you well in your recovery.

Having lunch with a friend certainly sounds lovely.

Please take care.

tyme

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thank you @tyme

its a rather uncomfortable time for me at the moment. im also not allowed to go walking or do any bending or anything like that. im use to walking every day and going to the horses and going to work or just being out and about in general so its going to be hard for me to be at home basically all day every day for the next week at least. i dont go back to work till next thursday or possible longer. i go back to see the surgeon next week to see if im able to go back to light duties or night shift at least so i can earn money.

the location they are in makes it very awkward and uncomfortable to do anything really including sitting or laying down so makes sleep difficult. the past 2 days post surgery have been quite difficult so it was nice to see a friend for lunch. she knows about the surgery so she was happy to walk slowly with me from the car into the restaurant and provide a good distraction!
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