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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor13 Apr 2023, 3:58 pm AEST

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Oh my @outlander it seems like so much is happening for you at the moment.

I'm sorry to hear that things are going downhill for you and that you are struggling with your uni work at the moment.

Motivation is hard at times, I can understand that.

I hope you are able to work out something to pass uni. You have worked so hard on it.

Is there anything we can do to help?

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outlanderSenior Contributor13 Apr 2023, 4:07 pm AEST

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i dont think so @Snowie i just need motivation really be great. dont suppose you have any of that laying around do you

ive got 6 assignments left to do so just need to work through those and then hopefully pass the course.

ive already finished my tafe course but theyr being so with it and finialising details for the certificate to be sent to me

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SnowieSenior Contributor13 Apr 2023, 4:14 pm AEST

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Well done on finishing your Tafe course @outlander You should be really proud of that.

If I could give you all the motivation in the world I would hon. All I can do is be here with you through all of this.

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outlanderSenior Contributor13 Apr 2023, 4:45 pm AEST

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yeah finally done the cert 4 @Snowie been a long drawn out process for that course thats for sure.
it hought this one would be more interesting but its not really

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SnowieSenior Contributor13 Apr 2023, 4:47 pm AEST

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I think it is hard to get the motivation if it is hard to find the interest in it @outlander

I think that goes for anything that we do.

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outlanderSenior Contributor13 Apr 2023, 5:33 pm AEST

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yes thats true @Snowie
i need like a 6 month holiday from everything including my own brain and body!

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SnowieSenior Contributor13 Apr 2023, 5:39 pm AEST

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Agreed @outlander

Where are we going?

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outlanderSenior Contributor13 Apr 2023, 6:48 pm AEST

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anywhere thats not here @Snowie somewhere nice and relaxing

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SnowieSenior Contributor13 Apr 2023, 6:52 pm AEST

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Sounds good to me @outlander

Definitely nice and relaxing

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AppleblossomSenior Contributor13 Apr 2023, 7:02 pm AEST

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Tropical paradise

Here @outlander @Snowie ??

Its super you got thru the Cert 4 and still doing the other. Everybody struggles to finish courses even if they do not let on. I been at it a while and seen the most brilliant ... its hard, but hang in there ... and yes ... you will deserve a big break.

I had been thinking of you, noticing you had not posted.

Hugs

Apple

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