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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Oh dear no @outlander I hope you’re ok

Sending lots of love 💙💙💙

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander hoping you got some sleep last night and your headaches have eased a bit for you.

Take it easy hon and look after yourself 💗💗

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thank you @Eve7 @Snowie its taking me a while to recover from the concussion. a friend of mine called an ambulance last night so ended up in hospital as symptoms were worsening. i got home about an hour ago thakfully after a new ct there werent any changes. have been given a amedical certificate to have 2 mre days off work and need to go see my gp on tuesday fr another review if im not improving/needing another medical certifcate.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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So sorry to hear you were back in hospital @outlander but glad they did another scan and things look like they are on the mend. I hope you are able to get some rest the next few days and not have to worry about work.

Hopefully you don't have to see the gp on Tuesday but take all the time you need off work.

Sitting with you hon 💗💗

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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hopefully the next few days will be better @Snowie i cant do anything cause it makes the headaches worse. i have my new paint by numbers and diamond art and my crochet but i dont have the mental space or energy really to do them.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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That is understandable @outlander

It must be a little bit hard for you just to do nothing since you are always on the go and doing things.

Are there any movies or tv shows that you could watch?

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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I hope you are able to rest up for the next couple of days @outlander 💙

@Snowie 💜

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@Eve7 how are you going today?

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Sorry I didn’t respond earlier @Snowie

I went to breakfast with friends but the cafe was so loud and busy that I didn’t really enjoy myself. The food was good and so was the ocean view.

I hope you’ve had a good day.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander thinking of you hon, hoping things are going ok

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