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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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tymeModerator21 Dec 2022, 7:20 pm AEDT

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I hope there will be good news. @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor21 Dec 2022, 7:22 pm AEDT

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thanks @tyme i guess only time will tell

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tymeModerator21 Dec 2022, 7:38 pm AEDT

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Fingers crossed @outlander .

Have you had dinner?

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outlanderSenior Contributor21 Dec 2022, 7:53 pm AEDT

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No not yet @tyme

Not overly hungry so might just find something later

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SnowieSenior Contributor21 Dec 2022, 7:55 pm AEDT

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@outlander

I hope you find some happiness over the next week and can enjoy Christmas with your family.

I also hope that the pain subsides for you. You certainly deserve for things to go your way.

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outlanderSenior Contributor21 Dec 2022, 8:34 pm AEDT

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Thanks @Snowie just going to be working. Good time to work with all the public holidays over the next week or so.

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tymeModerator22 Dec 2022, 2:13 pm AEDT

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How are you today @outlander ?

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SnowieSenior Contributor22 Dec 2022, 3:02 pm AEDT

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@outlander hoping today is a little better for you hon

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outlanderSenior Contributor22 Dec 2022, 6:06 pm AEDT

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i had a pretty good day at work @Snowie @tyme
pretty tired now though so planning on just watching a movie and crocheting. im trying to finish my current project before the new year so i can start a new one next year.

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tymeModerator22 Dec 2022, 6:12 pm AEDT

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Good to hear you had a pretty good day at work @outlander .

As for crocheting, do you find it relaxing?

I really feel like doing a diamond art, but I don't have any at home. Usually, once I start, I stress out to finish and I don't even take breaks... hence the potentially 'therapeutic' activity becomes a stressor lol.

At least I know so I won't buy a diamond art if I don't have time to do it!

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