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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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tymeModerator

Re: not coping

Go true @Appleblossom . LOL! Smile!

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Bellarose75Senior Contributor

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@outlander 🦖❤️

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Hello @Bellarose75 long time no see!! How are you?

❤️💙💛

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Bellarose75Senior Contributor

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Hi @Eve7, definitely been long time. I am doing ok for now, lots of change which I don’t cope with. Life has to move forward though and I am done being stuck.

How are you doing Eve?

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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I’m doing ok thanks @Bellarose75 Lots of things happening in my crazy life too.

Hope you can be here more regularly as we’ve missed you and @Lee82

💙💚💙💚💙

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander 💗💗

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Appleblossom @Snowie @Eve7 @Bellarose75 @tyme @Sans911 @Faith-and-Hope 💙 💛 💜

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BowSenior Contributor

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@outlander 💕 sorry things are so difficult at the moment for you

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AppleblossomSenior Contributor

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@outlander

Taking steps beside you or sitting in the car as you drive, or we could swap and you be passenger ... and just take in some views.... whatever you need.

It is a really complicated situation that the psych put you in. We all do best when we strive for some dreams. Being out and about and in the study or workforce has so many extra intangible benefits. Yet being driven too much can have its down side.

12 hour shifts are a bit long. Hang in there my friend. My grandfather did them in the old psych wards, but that was unusual employment. When I worked in arbitration such shifts were compensated with extra loadings.

Acceptance of ourselves, is different to just accepting a limited fate. Thinking self harm is another layer of not accepting our deepest reality. I have gradually come to some acceptance of myself and my life, but I fought back at being too relaxed about some of the injustices, it took a while for me to be more at peace.

We are at different stages. You are young, and I wish the biggest best life possible.

love Apple

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