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Something’s not right

not coping

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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@Eve7

@Bunniekins im sorry to hear of your health concerns, is there anything youd like to talk about?

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thanks @NatureLover we have 2 staff back today thankfully and 2 more by mid next week so we should almost have all staff back. i never thought id be excited to see people lol but 16 hours a day 7 days a week is abit much

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@outlander

Pop likely will need professional care soon. Sounds like things are moving for you and you are getting clear on priorities. Sounds really promising. Best wishes for you in all you attempt.

Congrats too.

Love Apple

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Morning lil Sis @outlander
Also
@Snowie @NatureLover @Appleblossom @Zoe7 @Eve7 @Emelia8

I'm having Hyperbaric treatment for my wounds that still haven't healed. It's the same treatment diver's get when they have the 'bends'. The highly pressurised oxygen treatment is known to help heal difficult wounds like diabetic ulcers, burns, and other difficult wounds too gross to mention here lol!

@outlander it's fascinating to know about this treatment. If you get a chance to read up, please do so. So proud of you right now being a manager! Woo hoo. Go you.

I'm sorry I can't stick around. I have to go take a shower. My support worker will be here soon, and then he's taking me to the hospital. I will get public transport home.
Love to you all. Thank you for still thinking of me despite my reduced time here ❣️❣️❣️❣️

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yeah i think so too @Appleblossom but i still have the family fighting me every step of the way when it comes to that sort of thing.

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oh i have heard of that @Sans911 i havent done much reading on it though but you know me with my medical interests so ill have a look.

i am actually a manger of 2 things atm not only a disability support house but im also a project manager as well for a new house that we are setting up so new furniture and all interior designing and stuff. its really great.

your always in my thoughts

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I hope your treatment helps you out @Sans911 and makes things better overall for you. It sounds like it take up a great deal of time so I hope it is worth it. Please take care of yourself 💜

@outlander hoping work went well for you hon

Hi @Appleblossom @Bunniekins @NatureLover hoping you have had a good day 💗

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have had today off just chilling at my project house watching netflix and doing assignments. just found out ill need some more procedures and possibly a surgery as well same day, just have to see what date but will be within the next few weeks

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Hi @outlander

Hope you have had a nice chillin day hon.

Hoping the surgery helps you and makes things easier for you

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@Snowie hey Snowie sending you kindness and caring. Love pea🙂

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