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Something’s not right

not coping

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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@Emelia8 how are you going beautiful? I hope you are okish love pea 😘

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Sending morning hugs to you @Bunniekins , @outlander , @Sans911 , @Appleblossom , @Eve7 , @Snowie , @tyme ❤❤❤❤

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@Shaz51 good morning Shaz51😘 I hope you are doing well todayxx

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Hello beautiful Pea, how sweet of you to remember me. I havent been around much since coming home from my almost 6 weeks in hospital. Not doing too well @Bunniekins . Surgeon insists I need further surgery, fusion this time. Pretty major radical stuff, and something I was hoping to avoid. But the lesser decompression surgery has not had the desired effect of relieving pain, weakness and disability. And Pea, home is so alone with both hubby and Holly. The anniversary of hubbies death is just over 2 weeks away. And I list dear little Holly only a few days before I went into hospital for surgery. So I'm just not doing well, all round. And the weather is miserable ... soooo wet. I just dont know Pea.

Anyway enough of me. Did I read somewhere that you are concerned about you and your son losing your home? Being out on the streets with nowhere to go? Whats going on there Pea? 🐰💚

Hi @outlander Long time no see. How are you? Sending some love your way sweetheart.

Hugs @Shaz51 @Sans911 @Appleblossom

Emelia

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@Emelia8 I cant type to well due to my shakey hand sorry ..... looks like I was worried about nothing. We shall see. Life can be tough Em .... stay strong. Love pea

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@outlander What is going on for you at the moment. We care about you. Having you around has lightened my load, I wish your family could recognise those good qualities in you.

Hugs @Emelia8 @Shaz51 @Sans911

Oooh @Bunniekins hope your housing is secure.

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@outlander sorry I missed you hon. I hope you have been travelling well lately.

Sending lots of love to you sis 💗💗

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im really glad to see you all. i have really wanted to connect here more but lifes been getting in the way. i am a manager now of a few staff at my new job. i am also a project manger of another temporary job but itll be finishing up within the next 2 weeks so itll free up alot more time for me. i am also studying but the requirements are ridiculous. they want 2 assignments a week including alot of work to be signed off through my boss in another state so ive had to ask a work collegue to sign off on some of it for me. atm i have quite a few workers off sick with covid so myself and one other staff are basically covering 16 hour shift rotations atm so i pretty much just work study and fit some sleep in where i can.
i really miss you guys though. how are you all? ill be around for a little while before night shift now
@Sans911@Snowie@Appleblossom@Eve7@Bunniekins@Shaz51 @Emelia8

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@outlander lil Sis I was sure I wrote you a post :face_with_rolling_eyes:

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Work and study sound really challenging but great experience for you. Someone mentioned a new word the other day ... "credentialism" he calls it a fashion in the workplace ... not sure if that is what is bogging down the course.

Just good to hear your news Bella

@outlander

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