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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor28 Feb 2022, 6:49 pm AEDT

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im so overwhelmed @Eve7 ive been doing this all day and all day yesterday and im still hardly any of the way through plus its so noisy here with an unwanted visitor always whistling and the tv up so loud banging and clashing and baby sitting as well till midnight. its to much

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Eve7Senior Contributor28 Feb 2022, 9:59 pm AEDT

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I am so sorry it is overwhelming for you @outlander

Are you able to break the assignments down into smaller chunks and complete them that way? Baby steps hon 💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor28 Feb 2022, 11:01 pm AEDT

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Its just hard and confusing @Eve7 ive almost finished one still have 2 to go all before monday. Then i have another 4 to do over 2 weeks! Its crazy how much work there is in there so it works out to be 2 assignments a week. I have someone who might be able to help though and has heaps of experience in this area so hopefully can set me on the right track.

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Eve7Senior Contributor28 Feb 2022, 11:23 pm AEDT

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Sounds like a great idea to ask someone for help @outlander

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SnowieSenior Contributor01 Mar 2022, 4:25 pm AEDT

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Hi @outlander

Sorry I wasn't around yesterday. I hope that you got some of your assignments done and today is a little better for you hon.

Always in my thoughts 💗💗

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outlanderSenior Contributor01 Mar 2022, 7:45 pm AEDT

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thanks @Snowie @Eve7
its really hard but I think that's because my brains on overload so much. im nearly finished one, my boss is helping me with one tomorrow or Friday so thatll be 2 done so I just have one more to do and finish the first one.

how are you guys?

@Sans911 missing you, hope you check in soon

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Eve7Senior Contributor02 Mar 2022, 12:40 am AEDT

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That is sounding more positive @outlander i'm sure you'll have all 3 finished soon.

i had a tough day but it's over now so will try again tomorrow.

Good night 💜💙💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor02 Mar 2022, 10:09 am AEDT

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well we are getting quite flooded here @Eve7 so im working from home atm. mostly as staff support and ringing for appointment changes etc for our residents, meal planning and stuff like that. Ive discovered that I quite like the managerial side of things more then the personal client car. im feeling quite sick though, have been for the last few days and seen by dr and could possibly have gallstones or some other gastric infection but unsure what yet.
we have really bad flood warnings here though so will have to be extra careful

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SnowieSenior Contributor02 Mar 2022, 4:35 pm AEDT

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@outlander 💕💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor02 Mar 2022, 6:22 pm AEDT

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@Snowie

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