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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Afternoon @outlander

Sorry to hear what you are going through sis at the moment. It should not be that hard to get the help we deserve.

Am here with you hon, sitting right next to you 💜💜

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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It should not be that hard to get the help we deserve.-- very true @Snowie , @outlander , @Emelia8

sitting with you xx

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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the day just keeps getting worse. Another specialist that said they cant do anything for my injury, if i couldve surgically repaired it it mightve been ok for her but the mri shows permanent damage that cant be fixed. will be seeing yet another team of specialists a few hours away from me but maybe they might help.

and being told by someone to just suck it up.

this is why i stay quiet. i dont know why i bother asking for help or support. i should just learn to shut my mouth and keep everything to myself. Makes me think very differently about the people i am around.

i have tried to be positive, to look for the good, keep hope but what hope do i have now. i had hoped this year mightve been better but looks like its a turning point for alot of negatives.

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Hi @outlander that is not sounding good at all. I'm so sorry and I know we can't recommend drs on here but I do know there is a very good foot surgeon on the Gold Coast.

Anyway, I am here for you and sending kind thoughts to you. xox

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @Eve7
im tired. mentally i am so drained that i cant even study anymore.
these remarks are coming from people i thought were friends but i guess theyre right, there comes a time when i have to just get over it. this injury has just about ruined my life just as i finally started getting some things moving forward.

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Sending hugs and having a cuppa @outlander Do you want a cuppa?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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the psychologist ive been seeing has basically put me in the too hard basket too. 3 sessions and seems like its to hard even for professionals @Eve7

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Noone is too hard @outlander you are not too hard hon. They shouldn't even be saying that to you.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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seems like i am to hard @Eve7 they were going well till i actually said i wanted to work on a particular thing and then it was to hard basket. they are basically only staying with me because i dont have any supports and didnt want to leave me without anyone.
makes me just realise how alone i am, im only good when i can help people by the sounds of it.

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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I can hear how hard this continues to be for you @outlander and I really don't know what to say except you deserve to be helped and I am sure there will be someone with answers for you.

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