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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor16 Nov 2021, 9:40 pm AEDT

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Thanks @Anastasia so i have to work new job, look after pop, find time for my own appointments and pops appointments, still help take sister to school and do the babysitting till midnight and the horses

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor16 Nov 2021, 9:43 pm AEDT

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Hmmmm doesn't sound reasonable or sustainable at all @outlander. is the workload shared evenly around. I hope so?

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outlanderSenior Contributor16 Nov 2021, 10:32 pm AEDT

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no not really @Anastasia mum and her partner are looking after my sister though when theyre at home. was hoping to find a family member or 2 to help with pop but so far no luck only a day here and there it seems

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor16 Nov 2021, 10:34 pm AEDT

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I really hope that change for the better comes your way @outlander. You deserve that x

Night sweetheart

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outlanderSenior Contributor16 Nov 2021, 10:37 pm AEDT

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thanks @Anastasia as long as no more medical mystery ailmentents come up i should be alright!

How are you and your boy going?

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor17 Nov 2021, 7:58 am AEDT

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@outlander wrote:
Thanks @Anastasia so i have to work new job, look after pop, find time for my own appointments and pops appointments, still help take sister to school and do the babysitting till midnight and the horses

Oh, @outlander ! 😞

Sending hugs 💙

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SnowieSenior Contributor17 Nov 2021, 12:25 pm AEDT

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Glad your first day went ok @outlander

Thinking of you sis 💜💜💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor17 Nov 2021, 7:28 pm AEDT

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thanks @NatureLover @Snowie
have to work tomorrow, not looking forward to it. Not sure its the right job for me

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor18 Nov 2021, 6:31 am AEDT

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Thinking of you @outlander and wishing better things for you 💙

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SnowieSenior Contributor18 Nov 2021, 4:13 pm AEDT

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@outlander hoping everything went ok today sis 💗💗💗

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