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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Hi sweetie @outlander

How are you going today?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Hi @Snowie

not overly great tbh. stressed.

How are you?

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Sorry to hear hon @outlander

I am ok. Got S home sick from school and just got a message from D that she feels sick too and wants to come home.

Got to go pick her up but will be back soon.

Am here for you 💜💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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oh dear @Snowie hopefully its just a bug going around and will be better tomorrow

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Emelia8 👋

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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I think they will be ok @outlander

Have you got any plans for today?

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Emelia8Senior Contributor

Re: not coping

@outlander 😊💕

@Snowie ⛄🌸

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Not really @Snowie i did have 2 appts but had to cancel because couldnt afford them. Have yet another specialist appt again tomorrow.
Have been really headachy the last few days so just having some easy days

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SnowieSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

Sorry to hear you had to cancel those appointments hon @outlander It is hard when money stops us from getting the help we need. it makes it so difficult.

I hope the specialist appointment goes ok for you, hopefully you can get some more help that you need.

A few rest days sounds like a good idea. Hopefully it helps you.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

Thanks @Snowie
All my momey goes on bills and medical appointments. The last fortnight has cost me nearly $1800 its taken all of my savings that i had for christmas as well ans now falling behind on bills. Cant work either cause i can barely walk and now that its warmer nonone really needs helps so even that extra pay is basically gone now
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