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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 Oct 2021, 8:43 pm AEDT

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@Emelia8

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Emelia8Senior Contributor15 Oct 2021, 8:53 pm AEDT

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@outlander 😄💕

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor16 Oct 2021, 7:31 am AEDT

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Thinking of you, @outlander ...hope you're coping... 💙

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SnowieSenior Contributor18 Oct 2021, 9:49 am AEDT

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@outlander

Sorry to hear you are in hospital hon and that things are hard for you at the moment.

I hope you are able to get better soon and that you don't have to go through an operation.

Here with you sis 💗💗💗

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Sophia1Senior Contributor18 Oct 2021, 10:10 am AEDT

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Not up to date with your situation @outlander

I just read @Snowie post to you

Please be gentle with yourself...

I am thinking of you ...as little help as that sounds..

There were so many forum members who were willing to help carry this into your room for you...

all sending you love and thoughts for some calm and healing

💜Sophia

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Eve7Senior Contributor18 Oct 2021, 10:47 am AEDT

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Sending lots of love to you @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor18 Oct 2021, 6:46 pm AEDT

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thank you @NatureLover @Eve7 @Snowie @Sophia1
thankfully it was only overnight admission just till i could pain manage and stop throwing up everywhere the other day.

i have a test that goes for 4 hours tomorrow and will be the last one before i see the dr again and then be refferred to a specialist. no idea whatll happen in regards to surgery but at this point i need my foot to be working so i need them to do whatever they need to do.
i also will be having another dental surgery between now and january.

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Eve7Senior Contributor18 Oct 2021, 7:28 pm AEDT