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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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BowSenior Contributor

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Ok, that's fair enough. So your needing other family members to step up and take some responsibilities? Help with the load.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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yeah pretty much. i gave up all my childhood for this @Bow

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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@outlander wrote:
yeah pretty much. i gave up all my childhood for this @Bow

Wow, am so sorry to hear this, @outlander - 6 years is a long time 😞

I wish you could get out of that carer role 😞

Sending 💙

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander 💗

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Good morning hon @outlander

Missing you and hoping everything is going ok.

Lots of love sweetie 💗💗💗

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@NatureLover @Snowie @Sans911 @Eve7 @Anastasia @Bow @Shaz51 and everyone
Thinking of you all 💜💙❤

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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How’s everything @outlander ?

Ive been missing you 💜💜💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Struggling a fair bit @Eve7 been drinking alot the last 2 nights but im being good tonight. Just going to keep cleaning to manage bad anxiety with no specific reason. I am super tired and lethargic though but if i sit still for to long then i think and the anxiety gets worse

How are you

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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Hugs my sister xoxo @outlander . I have had 2 glasses tonight

Hello @Eve7 , @Snowie , @NatureLover , @Bow

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Sending big hugs and lots of support @outlander 💜🤗💜💙💜🤗💜

I am weary too. My family did my head in this weekend

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