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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Glad the specialist has been helpful @outlander That is what they are for to help you. Phone appointments are harder hun, but I guess you have at least got them

They certianly are smart, and know where there treats are.

Took some more prn so feeling a bit sleepya nd spaced out at the moemtn. Least it is giving my brain a rest.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Good to give the brain a rest @Snowie
Im just going to the shops to try and find something for tea and get some essentials and quickly feed horses before it rains so ill be back soon

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Thanks @outlander

I’m ok this evening but glad the day is almost over.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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me too @Eve7 had a bit of a dampener to my day

i hope tomorrow is better for you

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Sorry about that @outlander You are overdue for a break from all this hon.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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that would be nice @Eve7 my important event i was invited to had to be cancelled cause of stupid covid. that was suppose to be a few days off but now ill have to work and stuff

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Covid is out of control in NSW @outlander but I think once the vaccinations kick in the lockdown will cease and it will be ”survival of the fittest”

My head is racing tonight and I don’t think sleep will come.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i have no idea any more @Eve7 i just hope it doesnt get to out of control. sydney is the worst. i hope they get that under control soon, there has to be a reduction in cases somewhere soon.

do you want to talk about anything?

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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I just tried to call lifeline but hung up after waiting a while @outlander

sh is a bit out of control right now.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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oh dear @Eve7 sorry the line was so long to get onto lifeline
Would SCBS be any good to try out?

What would normally help your sh urges? would running cool water over your wrists, throwing socks, playing with playdough, having a shower or making a nice cuppa be any good?
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