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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor28 Aug 2021, 9:49 pm AEST

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Sure he will @outlander He has enough alcohol in him too.

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outlanderSenior Contributor28 Aug 2021, 9:54 pm AEST

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Oh dear @Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor28 Aug 2021, 9:58 pm AEST

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He just gets sleepy when he has drunk too much @outlander and then starts snoring.

Not that he drinks that often so I don't mind when he gets like this. Just means I have to stay up late to pick up D. He can do tomorrow night however.

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SnowieSenior Contributor28 Aug 2021, 10:16 pm AEST

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Going to go and have a shower and then pick up D @outlander

Thanks for keeping me company tonight.

Love you lots sis 💕💕💕

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SnowieSenior Contributor29 Aug 2021, 9:58 am AEST

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Good morning hon @outlander

Hoping you got some sleep last night and today is a good day for you.

Lots of love and hugs 💗💗💗💗

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outlanderSenior Contributor29 Aug 2021, 2:26 pm AEST

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hope your days abit better today @Snowie

thinking you all @Sans911 @Anastasia @Emelia8 @Appleblossom @Shaz51 @Eve7 @Sophia1 @Owlunar and all who may pass through

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SnowieSenior Contributor29 Aug 2021, 2:29 pm AEST

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Hey sis @outlander

How is your day going?

Managed to go for a walk with H and dog this morning.

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outlanderSenior Contributor29 Aug 2021, 2:34 pm AEST

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thats nice @Snowie H probably needed it too after all that drinking lol

i was sick most of last night and this morning, seem to be improving abit at least. i was suppose to ride but had to cancel it.
so just been at home trying to get this assignment done, done the washing and pulled down xmas lights and cleaned off the cobwebs on the verandah and carport

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SnowieSenior Contributor29 Aug 2021, 2:39 pm AEST

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Sorry to hear that you were sick hon @outlander that is no good

I hope you are feeling a bit better now.

Sounds like you have got a number of things done today. Well done hon.

Resting on the couch now. Must have tired the dog out with the walk, she is fast asleep next to me!!

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Shaz51Senior Contributor29 Aug 2021, 2:44 pm AEST

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hope you feel better soon my @outlander

hello @Snowie , @Eve7 , @Sophia1

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