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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor24 Aug 2021, 4:50 pm AEST

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i am trying to face my fear! @Snowie i will do everything possible to not get an injection! but i thought if i could maybe start small on a horse that is good if mine ever need one i can do it myself

im done and dusted now so can study and watch tv now. yep lol joys of zoom just chuck a nice shirt on and have hair presentable lol

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outlanderSenior Contributor24 Aug 2021, 4:55 pm AEST

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yeah its pretty annoying @MDT

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SnowieSenior Contributor24 Aug 2021, 4:59 pm AEST

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In between interviews at the moment @outlander

Got 2 teachers left and then I am done for D.

Have S's on Thursday afternoon.

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outlanderSenior Contributor24 Aug 2021, 5:00 pm AEST

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wow long sessions! @Snowie hopefully wont take to much longer but knowing D im sure its all good things

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SnowieSenior Contributor24 Aug 2021, 5:03 pm AEST

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It is all good things with D @outlander As long as she is behaving and keeping up with her work then I am happy with her.

She is very academic, she is lucky that it comes very natural to her.

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outlanderSenior Contributor24 Aug 2021, 5:05 pm AEST

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yep i guess thats really all thats important and that she puts in the effort with her work @Snowie by the sounds of it she does anyway

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SnowieSenior Contributor24 Aug 2021, 5:07 pm AEST

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She does put in the effort @outlander

She is on an academic scholarship at her school so we don't have to pay for her school fees which is good. She has always loved school since early on. She wants to go into medicine which would no doubt she will.

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outlanderSenior Contributor24 Aug 2021, 5:08 pm AEST

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oh thats awesome @Snowie
she must have your brain! she is a smart cookie

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SnowieSenior Contributor24 Aug 2021, 5:20 pm AEST

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oh no hon, she is much smarter than I am @outlander !!

Very argumentative too!!

Have you got dinner organised yet?

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outlanderSenior Contributor24 Aug 2021, 5:35 pm AEST

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lol @Snowie

no not organised yet. pops hungry so ill have to do something soon though

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