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Something’s not right

not coping

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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thank you @Sophia1 i appreciate you looking out for me. i dont really have anyone except for here so sometimes its nice to hear.

i am resting alot. its very unusual for me, im use to being so busy. i find it to hard to sit around and do nothing tbh, my nervous energy builds up way to much but im also so tired. im not really sleeping much or anything so im just really tired.

slowly getting there with studies. i dont have to rush. its a self paced course anyway so i can just do it when i get there. ive got 2 assignments plus the one im working on now left to do yet.

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am super tired and headachy @Snowie seem to be on alot of pain relief lately 😞

havent been sleeping and have been having at least 2 panic attacks a day lately

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oh hon @outlander

That doesn't sound good at all.

Is there anything we can do to help?

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i dont know @Snowie i dont think so. theres nothing really to do for it

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Hello @outlander

Thank you for your reply and pleased to hear that you did not feel overwhelmed or suffocated by my trying to offer support.

It is a relief when we have a nook that we can go to when overtired; in too much pain; sleep deprived; fed up and plain bored.....

It is hard to slow down and rest with foot up when you are active....

Years ago I sprained my ankle on both sides by tripping over a hose pipe in my back garden at night...

My own fault for not putting it away earlier....I left it out to finish off watering later when cooler.....

wrong move.....

Had heaps of physiotherapy sessions which did help;stretch exercises gently and a walking stick to help me hobble along trying to keep the weight off of that foot.

I had to have my foot elevated....

I had an extra chair set up at work where I then had to twist to the right to use the desktop computer...answer the phones and attempt to grab files...Was difficult but I got through it as one does...

Extremely tiring, pain, boredom, lethargy and no sleep...

Yours is bruising so will settle slowly especially internal bruising...it will probably change colours as inner bruising begins to surface...you have some muscular bruising and was it tendon as well?

You will come to a stage when you can look back and tell yourself wow I did all of that whilst keeping my foot up!

happy distracting

Sophia 💛sunshine for everyday xx

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Well around for a bit hon @outlander if you need some company.

Hi @Sophia1 💗💗

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Hello @Snowie

Lovely that you are keeping @outlander company for a while.

How are you @Snowie

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I am going ok today @Sophia1

Has been a 'stay at home day' today but most days are like that lately!!

Just been doing some things around the house. Relaxing on the couch with the dog atm.

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Thanks @Snowie think i might watch a movie and lay down for abit.

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That sounds like a good idea hon @outlander

I hope you are able to have a bit of a rest.

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