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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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doubt it @NatureLover shes a hard marker! its taken me 2 or 3 days before to do just one assignment so 10 hours is nothing.

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Maybe it’s time for a new SP @Snowie because it hasn’t helped for you all week. Maybe if the hospital call again it might help to be honest as they can get in touch with pdoc.

Would sudoku help?

Love you lots 💜💙💜

Hey @outlander @NatureLover hope you’re both holding up ok with lockdown 💚💛💚

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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You are so wise @Eve7 . And thanks for your good wishes, I'm generally OK in lockdown. How is your lockdown going?

💛

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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@outlander wrote:
doubt it @NatureLover shes a hard marker! its taken me 2 or 3 days before to do just one assignment so 10 hours is nothing.

Oh gosh @outlander ! Well, good luck!

I was never a very good student, I always left things to the last minute. Needed the deadline to get scary before I could tackle the assignments. I had "performance anxiety" and still do, a bit, irl now.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i get that too @NatureLover but for exams i always do well but give me an exam and ill probably fail it!

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Aww @NatureLover thank you for saying that about me, it means a lot.

I’m ok in lockdown and I’ve been out for a walk. I can work from home and look after S1 so that’s a bit easier.

I dont like pdoc by zoom but at at least I don’t have to stress about what to wear or hair and make up haha

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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You're welcome, @Eve7 . I'm glad you seem to be OK in lockdown and have things to do. Can you still go to ECT?

Guess your son must be pretty frustrated with his lack of mobility 😣

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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@outlander wrote:
i get that too @NatureLover but for exams i always do well but give me an exam and ill probably fail it!

Exams are hard @outlander . I read you have a 3 hour one coming up. Will that be at home? I'm sure you won't fail, you've been working hard!

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i have to talk to the teacher because what theyve done is, they give you a link to download and then you do the exam and then you have to scan it back into the computer to send back. so by the time i print and get set up itll be 10 min taken off my time and then i have to back and scan etc thats taking off more time. im going to go to a friends house and spent time in the backyard at her outdoor table instead of home so i wont be interrupted

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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I'm not having ECT now @NatureLover as I finished this round.

S1 is frustrated and I don't know what he'll do when the OG finish.

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