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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor07 Aug 2021, 2:14 pm AEST

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i think thats my limit too lol @Snowie 3 will do anyway.

hopefully football entertains you but if not im sure there are plenty of other movies your yet to see you could watch? ive been watching the despicable me dvds

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SnowieSenior Contributor07 Aug 2021, 2:19 pm AEST

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Will keep the footy on for now @outlander Have foxtel so there are plenty of movies on there I could watch. If we start to lose I will change the channel!!!

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outlanderSenior Contributor07 Aug 2021, 2:36 pm AEST

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lol @Snowie good plan

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SnowieSenior Contributor07 Aug 2021, 3:03 pm AEST

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Thanks for keeping me company today @outlander I really appreciate it.

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outlanderSenior Contributor07 Aug 2021, 3:10 pm AEST

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always @Snowie im enjoying your company too. nice to have some company while im tearing my hair out studying lol

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SnowieSenior Contributor07 Aug 2021, 3:13 pm AEST

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Hopefully it isn't too much for you hon @outlander studying.

If I could get of my butt and do something it might help but no motivation what so ever.

My mind is going a million miles and hour and my body isn't going at all!

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outlanderSenior Contributor07 Aug 2021, 3:15 pm AEST

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the assignments are alot but the content isnt. the content is easy its just when i have to spend 3 or 4 days just researching for an assignment alone it gets abit much @Snowie

well if your bored your welcome to come and do them for me 😂😂

happy to give you something to research! might occupy your mind for abit

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SnowieSenior Contributor07 Aug 2021, 3:21 pm AEST

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That is a lot of time researching hon @outlander Hopefully they are interesting topics.

Not sure if my mind could focus on one thing at the moment. It seems to be focused on all the things I should do to myself, but I am trying to resist them. Taken some prn so hopefully that helps a little.

Waiting for H to come home so I can take something stronger.

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outlanderSenior Contributor07 Aug 2021, 3:23 pm AEST

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please try to resist them @Snowie hopefully the prn will help and H will be home sooner.
do you want to talk about anything?

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SnowieSenior Contributor07 Aug 2021, 3:30 pm AEST

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Trying too @outlander not having a lot of success however.

Have rung H to try and get home sooner rather then later.

I just need to try and get out of my head if I can. I think going back into lockdown and not being able to see my supports isn't helping. I am meant to see my pdoc and psych next week but that won't be happening now. I had a call from the hospital today seeing if I was ok, and just told them yes I'm fine. The nurse was trying to rush through the phone call anyway. Sorry, just rambling now.

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