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Something’s not right

not coping

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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I know 😞 @Sans911 dont know what happened and just get to overwhelmed looking at all the corrections. Honestly just want to pull out of it, doesnt feel like me at all either.

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I can't tell you what to do, but you haven't failed here. I know you, and this is something outside you.

Did you pay for the course at all? Could you re enrol in the course at another time?

@outlander

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What do you mean by 'something outside you'? @Sans911

The course is free for a short while after that i think its a $2000 course

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Either something was going on externally for you at the time, like issues with your pop or family. That or the course hasn't been well constructed. It's not like you to misunderstood instructions @outlander.

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Oh ok @Sans911 i honestly dont know. It didn't seem that hard when i was doing it. Annoying and abit time consuming to do but i can follow instructions even when its annoying. I dont think anything was happening at the time either except being unwell. Shouldnt really be an excuse though. Even when i was looking at it today it wasnt sinking in. I was reading the instructions and its like its going in one ear and out the other.

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I am really dreading the results of the next 2 assignments now if i cant even follow the simple thing of listing 3 word document features, describe them and how the features make it easy for the reader to read 🤷‍♀️

Seems stupid to feel disappointed over it. I dont know why its getting to me so much. I really shouldnt bother you guys with it

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Yes, you can bother me because it's important @outlander, and I like you sharing these things with me. Good or bad. And it's not stupid to be disappointed. It's natural to feel like that. You worked hard and thought you were doing the right thing. Perhaps talking or emailing the lecturer might be helpful.

I'm here for lil Sis for whatever you are doing or going through. Doesn't matter what that is.

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Thanks sis, much appreciated 🌷 @Sans911

I dont really know what to do though. The lecturers take so long to respond to anything and now i cant find any motivation to even log onto the online portal.

I was also supppse to speak to gp tomorrow about results but now its monday instead

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I'd be feeling probably about the same as uou right @outlander. Disappointed, unmotivated. Can you leave it until day one and see if perhaps the lecturer gets back to you?

So more time and anxiety then on waiting for test results. That's tough.

Idk. Maybe the course is too much for you at this time. I know it's often a helpful distraction, but seems not to be right now.

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Maybe @Sans911
If i feel like it i can try the corrections another day. I only have 30 days to get these corrections finished, do another 2 assignments, study the next module and then do the final 2 assessments.
I am suppose to start the next dementia course in a week as well.

Yeah, more waiting but i guess the extra few days isnt really going to make much difference. I have to manage things as best i can with/without knowing the results. The offerred me to see another gp but i cant understand their accent esp on the phone so just said id wait. They wont tell me if its urgent now though cause it all goes to that gp and he wont be there to look 😖


How are you going tonight though? Hows your day been?
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