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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor11 July 2021, 11:44 pm AEST

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@Bunniekins i read you werent going to well atm, im here if you need to talk or would just like some company. Sending love and hugs to you 💜❤

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BunniekinsSenior Contributor12 July 2021, 12:51 am AEST

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@outlanderthank you outlander you are a kind friend. I have to go back into hospital again for roughly 6 weeks. Have to find respite for son2 though first. xxx

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor12 July 2021, 8:19 am AEST

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@outlander wrote:
its been a little easier so far @NatureLover
we are in a much tougher lockdown now though so could be abit tougher for a few weeks. hopefully my surgery wont get cancelled either.

Thinking of you and hoping your surgery doesn't get cancelled, @outlander 💙

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor12 July 2021, 8:21 am AEST

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@Bunniekins wrote:
I have to go back into hospital again for roughly 6 weeks. Have to find respite for son2 though first. xxx

@Bunniekins I didn't know things were tough...am sorry to hear. Good luck finding respite for the 6 weeks. And good luck for yourself too 💚

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BunniekinsSenior Contributor12 July 2021, 10:00 am AEST

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@NatureLover Thanks hunny. Yes will be hard to find the appropriate respite with this stupid covid lockdowns going on.

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SnowieSenior Contributor12 July 2021, 10:10 am AEST

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Good morning @outlander @Sans911

Hope you both have a good day 💕💕💕

@outlander our holiday was good. Was great to get away for awhile. The kids had a really good time and H was able to forget about work for a week. Hopefully we will get up there again for some weekends.

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outlanderSenior Contributor12 July 2021, 11:17 pm AEST

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Thatll be nice @Snowie glad you had a good time away 🧡

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outlanderSenior Contributor12 July 2021, 11:18 pm AEST

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If its cancelled it should only get pushed back a month or 2 so not a big deal but would really like it out of the way @NatureLover

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outlanderSenior Contributor12 July 2021, 11:21 pm AEST

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Thats really tough @Bunniekins
Respite will be a challange if your in a lockdown area hopefully not though.
They should still accept respite patients though. Ask around with some local centres and see what they say. Sometimes they can fit people in even when theres waitlists depending how urgent it is.

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outlanderSenior Contributor13 July 2021, 12:00 am AEST

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Hey @Mazarita seen you floating around. your up late tonight..

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