FORUMS

Connect with people who understand what you are going through, seek advice and surround yourself with support. We're free, anonymous, and professionally moderated 24/7.

  • 47,612Members
  • 1,358,869Posts
  • 1,400,000Visitors
Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

18135 replies

10,821 - 10,830 of 18,135
1...1,0821,0831,084...1,814

In response to: not coping

Eve7Senior Contributor

Re: not coping

Are you still working with the horses and minding your siblings?

I wish I could take you to a Garden of Eden somewhere where everything is healthy for you to eat @outlander

In response to: Re: not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

working with the horses, still pop, my own horses, and miding siblings sometimes-one in particulsr now that the other is working and has own car etc so dont have to do as much

im just beyond fatigued. havent relly had it this bad before @Eve7

In response to: Re: not coping

Eve7Senior Contributor

Re: not coping

It’s good that one has her own car and you only have one to mind @outlander

Is Pop able to go for respite at all so you get a break?

Would you like a cuppa?

In response to: Re: not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

cant do respite just causes argument @Eve7

a tea might be nice thanks

In response to: Re: not coping

Eve7Senior Contributor

Re: not coping

I’ve boiled the jug @outlander and made us a cuppa.

Let’s just sit by the fire pit and look at the stars that are shining brightly tonight on our little part of the world.

Can we think just for a moment that our pain pain is temporary and that it will pass?

🔥🌙 💫

In response to: Re: not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

Sounds nice @Eve7
I know whatll happen tonight when i close my eyes though

In response to: Re: not coping

Eve7Senior Contributor

Re: not coping

I’ll say good night my friend @outlander and I really hope you dream well tonight with no horrible nightmares.

Lots of love

💜💙💛💙💜

In response to: Re: not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

Goodnight @Eve7 sleep well 💚💜

In response to: Re: not coping

NatureLoverSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

Sending lots of gentle hugs @outlander and 💙

I hope last night was bearable.

In response to: Re: not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

its been a little easier so far @NatureLover
we are in a much tougher lockdown now though so could be abit tougher for a few weeks. hopefully my surgery wont get cancelled either.
10,821 - 10,830 of 18,135
1...1,0821,0831,084...1,814

SANE Forums is published by SANE with funding from the Australian Government Department of Health.

SANE Forums does not provide crisis support.
If you need immediate assistance, please see available crisis services.

Learn more about SANE and SANE services at sane.org

Back to top
SANE logo
Australian Commission on Safety and Quality in Health Care NSQDMH Accreditation logo

Help us push aside the stigma and discrimination surrounding complex mental health and change the way people talk about, and care for, mental illness.

Donate Now
Aboriginal flag
Torres Strait Islander flag
LGBT flag
Transgender flag

SANE acknowledges the Traditional Owners of Country throughout Australia and recognises the continuing connection to lands, waters and communities. We pay our respect to Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures; and to Elders past and present.

SANE values diversity. We are committed to providing a safe, culturally appropriate, and inclusive service for all people, regardless of their ethnicity, faith, disability, sexuality, or gender identity.

Back to top
SANE logo
Australian Commission on Safety and Quality in Health Care NSQDMH Accreditation logo

Help us push aside the stigma and discrimination surrounding complex mental health and change the way people talk about, and care for, mental illness.

Donate Now
Aboriginal flag
Torres Strait Islander flag
LGBT flag
Transgender flag

SANE acknowledges the Traditional Owners of Country throughout Australia and recognises the continuing connection to lands, waters and communities. We pay our respect to Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures; and to Elders past and present.

SANE values diversity. We are committed to providing a safe, culturally appropriate, and inclusive service for all people, regardless of their ethnicity, faith, disability, sexuality, or gender identity.

SANE is a public company limited by guarantee and registered tax-exempt charity with DGR (Deductible Gift Recipient) status.

Charity ABN 92 006 533 606. Donations of $2 or more are tax deductible. SANE, PO Box 1226, Carlton VIC 3053.