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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor04 July 2021, 11:22 pm AEST

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Thanks @Anastasia i suppose so..

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor05 July 2021, 7:23 am AEST

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@outlander wrote:
I was given a great opportunity today and im excited but i am also very nervous

How fantastic you can spend a week away from all your responsibilities @outlander ! I'm happy for you 🙂 I expect you would be nervous as you don't get to go away much. Thinking of you and sending 💙

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Sans911Senior Contributor06 July 2021, 1:40 am AEST

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Aww thanks @Clawde 💕💕💕💕

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Sans911Senior Contributor06 July 2021, 3:37 am AEST

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I think you've gone to bed lil Sis @outlander 💖💖💖💖

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outlanderSenior Contributor06 July 2021, 5:41 am AEST

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Sorry sis i fell asleep around 230ish @Sans911
Still here and sitting with you 💜💜💜 hoping you might be sleeping now

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outlanderSenior Contributor06 July 2021, 9:38 pm AEST

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@Sans911 💜💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor06 July 2021, 10:09 pm AEST

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How are you @Sans911

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Sans911Senior Contributor06 July 2021, 10:19 pm AEST

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It's been a busy and at times stressful day @outlander but there were some good moments too. Like sitting with Clio atm and she's purring. Big storm passing over too.

How about you?

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outlanderSenior Contributor06 July 2021, 10:26 pm AEST

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Aw little cutie
Oh no hope the storms not to bad! @Sans911

Its been a massive day here. Much bigger then expected esp only on 2 hours sleep. Basically worked with the horses from 7am to 7pm then had to run to shops for some click and collects so i grabbed pop went and got those ans got dinner while was out. My legs and feet are so tired from so much walking esp hill walking! And vet treatments, learnt how to do some injections on horses but will do it myself next time under watchful eye, will see if i can conqure that fear of doinf them!
Tomorrow is another big day so hopefully can get some sleep thats not totally filled with nightmares.
And im really stressed and anxious about the opportunity i have been given in a few months time

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Sans911Senior Contributor06 July 2021, 11:02 pm AEST

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That's a long day @outlander. It's normal to be stressed and anxious about new opportunities. I gave faith in you that you are more than capable.

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