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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor30 June 2021, 10:40 pm AEST

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Would anyone still be up?

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Sans911Senior Contributor30 June 2021, 10:49 pm AEST

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Evening lil Sis @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor30 June 2021, 10:52 pm AEST

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So good to see you sis @Sans911 💜
How are you?

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Sans911Senior Contributor30 June 2021, 11:04 pm AEST

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I didn't realise how long I was away for. I'm tired but OK. In lockdown here too for 4 days. Ends Saturday after midnight.

Last week was really challenging @outlander. Quite difficult really. Getting there this week.

What's happening tonight for you?

@Emelia8 - I read your recent posts hun. Big hugs. Life isn't always what we expect it to be. You are strong though, despite your emotional pain. Time is what will help to heal some of your hurts, but some pain will linger. I understand it's not the same as real life, but lean on your family here when the darkness closes in and times are difficult. I'd love to sit and have a cuppa with you.

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outlanderSenior Contributor30 June 2021, 11:14 pm AEST

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@Emelia8 👋☕🧡

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outlanderSenior Contributor30 June 2021, 11:16 pm AEST

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We are on a 2 week downdown here @Sans911 but lifestyle hasnt really changed much at least. Just boredom for kids as its just gone holidays here for us.
We can still go to the horses so have been taking them so they can spend time there.

Do you want to talk about your week? Happy to listen...

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Sans911Senior Contributor30 June 2021, 11:31 pm AEST

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2 weeks?! That's harsh!

Nah,ive kinda dealt with it off sorts thanks @outlander. Just difference of opinion at work with my manager. And a few other things. I'm coming out the other side.

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Sans911Senior Contributor30 June 2021, 11:36 pm AEST

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This is my new little female fur baby. Her name is Clio. She's 9 weeks old this week

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outlanderSenior Contributor30 June 2021, 11:36 pm AEST

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Yep 2 weeks 😞 whole of school holidays @Sans911 hopefully doesnt get extended otherwise sisters first 3 day camp with school will be cancelled as well.

Glad your coming out the other side now at least!

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outlanderSenior Contributor30 June 2021, 11:42 pm AEST

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Aww shes so cute @Sans911
What does Mr A think of her

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