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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor06 June 2021, 6:38 pm AEST

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Anyone care to join me? its nice and peaceful and no expectations here

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Shaz51Senior Contributor06 June 2021, 6:42 pm AEST

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sitting with you my sister @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor06 June 2021, 7:29 pm AEST

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Thank you @Shaz51 xo

@NatureLover i could get a second opinion but it is quite expensive, even further testing beyond this point is going to be expensive even with medicare rebates. The only difference between doing and not doing the further testing would be confirming which nerves are also damaged. I would've preferred an mri to check bone structures cause the diagnoses dont seem like 100% fitting.

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outlanderSenior Contributor06 June 2021, 9:42 pm AEST

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Would anyone be around atm to talk to

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AppleblossomSenior Contributor06 June 2021, 10:05 pm AEST

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Hey @outlander

We had an orange sunset tonight. Good to share it with my man child.

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outlanderSenior Contributor06 June 2021, 10:18 pm AEST

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Waiting for your pic @Appleblossom i do love a nice sunset

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AppleblossomSenior Contributor06 June 2021, 10:22 pm AEST

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They can be distractions and give a sense of peace. @outlander

In last 2 walks with my son he has really enjoyed them. I am glad he is out and about noticing.

Wish I could be of use re your health issues.

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Eve7Senior Contributor06 June 2021, 10:26 pm AEST

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@outlander

💙💜💙

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outlanderSenior Contributor06 June 2021, 10:53 pm AEST

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I do like sunrises ans sunsets @Appleblossom the sunrise over water is usually one of the best ones.
Sounds like your son is enjoying nature and taking pleasure in the simple things too ❤

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outlanderSenior Contributor06 June 2021, 10:54 pm AEST

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@Eve7 💜💕
Do you like sunrise/sunsets?

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