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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

Thats not good about your neighbour. It can be hard to know what to do @Sans911 i guess if he becomes a danger to himself or others you can call for welfare checks ans things but i dont think much more can be done unless he accepts the help himself too.

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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He is suicidal @outlander but I don't feel he would act on it unless his dog died. His dog has been unwell lately. But he has other worries as well. Money. Debts. I'm wanted to take him to financial counselling for a while, but it was a tricky subject to broach. He's agreed to go this week. Plus his gp as well.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Hopefully with the financial counselling and gp support itll help get him on a better path.
Your doing your best and thats all you can do @Sans911 💜

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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Yes, but I wish I could do more lil Sis @outlander. Thank you for your kind words though.

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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Hello gorgeous @Snowie. Nice to see you at this time of the day ☺️💕💕💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I know; i understand. Its a tricky situation to be in. @Sans911 💜 sending love and hugs

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Hello @Sans911

Have to pick D up at 11 from work.

Lots of love and hugs to you hon 💕💜💕💜

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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Another late night for you @Snowie. @outlander and I can keep you company. Along with Mr A and Izzy (but I think Izzy might be too high energy for my fur baby to contend with) 😂😂😂

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Haha @Sans911 Izzy is fast asleep making little puppy sounds 🐶

Hopefully I can go to sleep as soon as I have picked up D from work.

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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Mr A is also sound asleep too @Snowie. But I have to get up to take my meds.
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