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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor11 May 2021, 10:59 pm AEST

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Do you have alot on tomorrow @Sans911

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Sans911Senior Contributor11 May 2021, 11:19 pm AEST

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Op shop in the afternoon as usual lil Sis @outlander. I'm helping a neighbour in the morning to pick up tablets for his dog. He doesn't drive anymore, and public transport to his vet is a bit tricky.

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outlanderSenior Contributor11 May 2021, 11:21 pm AEST

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I hope op shop goes ok @Sans911
Your so kind to help your neighbour out 🌷🦋

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Sans911Senior Contributor11 May 2021, 11:54 pm AEST

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It's easy for me to do @outlander. You know, it's like half hour out of my day, but it's less stress for him. No brainer really.

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outlanderSenior Contributor11 May 2021, 11:58 pm AEST

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Your still kind for herr for keeping others 💕💕 💜💜

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Sans911Senior Contributor12 May 2021, 12:17 am AEST

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As are you my angel😘 I think that's part of our DNA. I do it because it's something I hope that others might do it for me sometimes. But the world needs kindness. Lots of kindness. Life is hard. You and I, and everyone here knows that. Kindness can go a long way.🤗

@outlander

I've just finished a number of emails, did my plan review documents for my NDIS coming up at the end of the month, now I'm updating my diary and then going to bed. 😴

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outlanderSenior Contributor12 May 2021, 11:43 am AEST

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Omg i dont even remember writing that. I think it was suppose to say 'your still kind for helping others' 🤣 @Sans911 but it sounds like you got what i meant anyway lol

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SnowieSenior Contributor12 May 2021, 1:44 pm AEST

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@outlander @Sans911 💕💕

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PeriSenior Contributor12 May 2021, 3:54 pm AEST

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Thank you @outlander ,

i need all the help I can get right now

peri

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outlanderSenior Contributor12 May 2021, 4:31 pm AEST

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@Peri am here if you need a listening ear 💕

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